So, we just moved back to our host country after a 6 month time in the states. What are we suppose to call that time now? I never know. Anyway, it was a good time of connecting with supporters, churches, family and friends.
And now we are in the throws of transition. Oh the joys. I think in some ways, we got lulled into a false sense of security, thinking since we were returning to the same house, it would feel more akin to coming home from vacation, just unpack and go. But we've hit some bumps, from the oldest down to the youngest. Such is life!
While I would love to give you something witty and charming and new, I am going to repost the first in a series of articles about moving across the world. I've been asked 4 times in the last week for my advice on moving, and it seems timely. Feel free to click through the other articles in the series. Hopefully it will help some of you out!
So without further ado: Moving Across the World
So, as I thought about what to share with you all today, I couldn't get away from my moving notebook.
I kept grabbing it and jotting down "boys jeans" or checking the "To Buy
in the States" page to see that garage sale had anything we needed.
And as I thought more about what to write, I figure, well, we all have
to deal with this right? I mean, we all seem to live in two or more
places and moving a family across the world is simply the reality of
missionary life. And frankly, it can be big and scary and hard to even
know were to begin! I remember thinking "I wish I had seen someone do
this before!" So, in hopes of helping someone, you can watch our family
move across the world. And let me just say as we start out, this is
what works for our family. It may or may not work for you. That's ok.
Take what you think will be helpful and leave the rest. Really.
And so, here is "Everything I Know About Moving a Family Across the
World". Well, that title is a bit long. Let's say instead, "Moving
Across the World" or MAW for an even shorter title.
I guess the most logical place to start would be from the beginning,
hummm? Before we were deployed (yes, that is the word our mission uses,
hehehe), we were living in a 4 bedroom, 2 bath house with a garage. We
decided early on that there were things we wanted to keep. You know
pieces of family furniture, keepsakes from our childhood and from our
boys. Baby equipment for the next kid. You get the idea. For us, what
made the most sense was to buy an old storage trailer (we found this
beauty on craigslist for about $1400, which from everything we were
told, was a steal!) It's 20 feet long and we keep it next to my
We didn't know when exactly we were going to be moving because of
funding, but we knew we were leaving. And we knew that all our junk
would not fit in the trailer or come with us. So, about 8 months before
we actually left, I started purging, sorting through our house room by
room. I worked with a couple of thoughts in my mind
1. Do we love this item?
2. Could we buy something similar in Costa Rica?
3. Is it worth it's weight?
If we love something, we kept it. If we love it and it's worth it's
weight, we bring it. If we love it and it can't come, it stays in the
If it's not something we love, worth it's weight or we could buy
something similar in Costa Rica, we get rid of it. Maybe we give it to
someone who could use it, or we sell it on Craigslist, or we give it to
Salvation Army. But we move it on out!
Now the "is it worth it's weight?" question. Sigh. This is probably
different for every family. For use there are somethings that just make
life a little brighter. You know, when your whole world is different
and you can't read the label for the soap, it's nice to be able to reach
for a familiar thing.
For me, it's my own linens. And since linens in Costa Rica are
terrible, it makes sense to bring them. I also have a thing for glass
jars. I have a few packed for this next move. Yes, they are heavy, but
I know I am not going to find these particular jars there. For me it's
worth it. It's going to be different for everyone.
So there you have The Beginning of MAW. Stay tuned for more thoughts and ideas on this crazy process of being a nomad.
What was/is your thought process on what what things should go and
what should stay? Any tips for making the process easier in the
Want more MAW? Check these out
Moving Across the World: Toys
Moving Across the World: Buying and Acquiring
Moving Across the World: Packing
Moving Across the World: The Big Day(s)
Moving Across the World: Helpful This and Thats